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Monday, October 25, 2010

Etiquette In Swinging (Common Sense and Social Courtesy)

Etiquette In Swinging (Common Sense and Social Courtesy)

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1. BE COURTEOUS - Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and Silver rules.

2. BE FRIENDLY - Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.

3. RESPOND TO ALL INVITATIONS - RSVP means please reply to the invitation. It does NOT mean reply only if you plan to attend. The most frustrating part of hosting, be it a party, a group or another couple, is people who are discourteous enough not to respond, PERIOD. Good etiquette and good social courtesy DEMAND you respond, by either calling or writing to say yes OR no.

4. NEVER ARRIVE EMPTY HANDED - When you go to someone's home for a party, ask if there is something you can bring. (it's amazing how many supplies, other than food are used up at an average party.) If you are not going as a couple, a house- gift is appropriate (and not necessarily wine.)

5. GO PREPARED - Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc. If you plan to stay over, sleeping bags or blankets and pillows are necessities.

6. CLEANLINESS - Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.

7. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS - Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.

8. DON'T BE PUSHY - If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.

9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU - Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO - One of the basic etiquettes in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.

11. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS - Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging (Getting Drunk off your Ass) may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle. 420 Friendly, Ask a Host !

12. PRACTICE SAFER SEX - It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.

13. CALL TO SAY THANKS - Most people only use the telephone if they are going to go somewhere. Lost seems to the social ambiance of a 'Thank-You Note' or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed. It means a lot to most people, and they will surely remember you when planning their next event. Don't you like to be thanked?

14. BE A GOOD HOSTS - When we have people coming to your homes, we try to anticipate their needs: clean sheets on the beds; keep plenty of clean washcloths and towels available. If you haven’t been to one of our parties, ask for a tour of the home so that you will know where the bathrooms, kitchen, and other rooms play rooms are located. We want you to feel at home!!

15. ENJOY YOURSELF - Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude. You are there to have the best of times and to share the uninhibited enjoyment with those who have discovered a new dimension in their lifestyles. Don't hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people. You'll find them eager to welcome you.


AL & Vanessa

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for at least one thing in life, be it food or intimacy, as examples. Leaving food on the table, we stray into a familiar territory to take a dig on an act of physical intimacy. Intimacy is a term stretched to every direction and now it’s slanting towards the “swingers”.

Swinging is a non-monogamous activity of physical intimacy treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple. It has a recreational perspective. Swingers indulge in intimate acts with someone other than one’s spouse/primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that person.

Swingers have been thriving since the beginning of recorded time. In the era of flower power, swinging was a very “in-thing” and among the most popular “culture”. It has had different social standings through time, of course! The phenomenon of swinging may be seen as part of the revolution of recent decades. Swinging is like a sport for people who believe physical attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple.

Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in carnal activities with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. The most common method is an adult male and female couple, meeting other pairs for lovemaking and physical intimacy, and sometimes ongoing intimate relationships. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome.


The Different Types of Swinging Couples

During these events, swingers acknowledge lovemaking as a game and participants as team-mates. There are few ground rules, but none etched in stone. The prominent carnal activities, but definitely not limited to, are several to mention, but a few of the most popular ones include:

Exhibitionism

It is the form of pleasure which involves making out with a partner while being watched by at least one other person.

Voyeurism

Watching others doing or performing the big bang. It is acceptable in the group event, but not in private areas.

Soft Swap

It involves kissing and stroking and the basics in blowing a guy or tickling a girl down south, with multiple partners. This can be indulged during the threesome, group romp, or while swapping partners.

Peak Swap

This is to have penetrative physical sex with someone other than one’s partner. The idea is almost the definition of swinging, but not necessarily the same.

Group Game

This term signifies the activities involving multiple players in the same lay-out. It usually defines a group of four or more people interacting physically. The most common is two couples, although it can be any gender of four or more people.

Ménage a Trios

Also known as threesomes, this is one of the most common methods of starting in the swinging lifestyle for beginners. A lot of couples will carry on with threesomes long after they become an integral part in swinging. In this, all three involved people interact with each other in bed.

Extreme Measures

These include things such as spanking, bondage, and water sports. The majority of these are very uncommon at most swingers’ parties unless the hosts have chosen a theme for the night, in which case you will be notified well before the night of the party.

Bi-Factor

People of the same gender interacting with each other sexually. This is much more common between women than men, but it doesn’t mean every woman will indulge in it. Bisexuality between men is extremely rare in the swinging community, and is usually frowned upon if not organized prior, and is usually preferred in a separate area.


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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Freedom Acres San Bernardino Swingers

Freedom Acres:
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Come and see why Freedom Acres is home to the largest parties in Southern California every Friday and Saturday night! We offer a NO pressure environment, which is excellent for new & experienced lifestyle couples. Our spacious night club is completely separate from our playrooms. Members have a place to be reserved & private, or outgoing & wild! We are constantly striving to upgrade our facility both inside & out. If you have not been here recently, you may not recognize the place. We have just upgraded our sound and lighting system, that will blow away other night clubs with professional DJs . We are a private membership club, (not a house party), for couples and single women. BYOB, & we supply mixers, sodas and juices. A delicious, well stocked snack buffet table available all night makes us your one stop place to party on weekends! Towels provided for the Jacuzzi & shower, and condoms for the playful! A brief phone interview is required for first time attendees. Reservations never required at Freedom Acres! A great place to celebrate birthdays & anniversaries with your intimate friends! Check out our current theme schedule & updates to the parties on our website! Also check out http://www.coupleswhoswing.com

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Dream of an atmosphere where you can meet others that are like-minded. Dream of an atmosphere where music, sensuality and open-minded people come together. Dream of a secluded and stylish location where you can explore your sexuality in a safe and no pressure venue. Dream of a place to go where you won’t be judged for who you are or what you do. Dream of a place where open and honest relationships are promoted. Tangerine’s Dream is unlike anything you have ever experienced. It is a real Lifestyle On Premises Club where people come together in a thoughtfully designed setting for enjoyment of a sophisticated and erotic nature. Our members take pleasure in meeting new people and enjoy the atmosphere which only Tangerine’s Dream can deliver. The group is eclectic. We have found that a person’s

attitude, love for life and variety is what really makes a great person not "just" great looks and perfect shapes. Each party is different, with its own flavor. If you bring an open mind to meeting people and having a good time, you will want to come back.

What Tangerine’s Dream is NOT: ordinary, stuffy, cheesy, aggressive, a free for all, your usual nightclub, or about gawking. We are a couple-centric attitude group. What is a couple-centric attitude? We focus on relationshipswith open and honest communication. We provide an atmosphere of respect. We believe that the couple decides what is best for them and their relationship. We encourage communication between the couple before, during, and after the party. We also encourage open and honest communication to others at the party, including the single men and women. Members only club, please see the website for more information.

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